Opening Verse
“A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.” – Proverbs 15:1 (KJV)
Introduction
Life, much like driving a manual transmission car, requires a delicate balance. When we interact with our children or face stressful situations, the approach we take can either smooth the ride or cause the engine of our emotions to stall.
Devotional Story
Imagine a father teaching his teenage daughter how to drive a stick shift. The car jerks and stalls several times in the parking lot as the daughter struggles to find the right balance between the clutch and the gas pedal. Frustration mounts, and the atmosphere inside the car grows tense. Instead of yelling or scolding, the father takes a deep breath, smiles, and gently offers encouragement and guidance. His calmness helps his daughter relax, and soon she is maneuvering the car smoothly.
This scene mirrors many moments in life where patience and understanding can turn potential conflict into a learning opportunity and a moment of bonding.
What This Means
In relationships, especially with our children, the way we respond can set the tone for the outcome. Responding with patience and a calm demeanor can help in navigating through tough emotional situations effectively. When we choose a soft answer, we avoid the escalation of emotions.
Think About This
How do you react when stress levels rise? Do you tend to “rev the engine” with harsh words, or do you “ease the clutch” with patience? The next time you find yourself in a tense moment, remember the balance required to smoothly operate a manual car.
Prayer
Dear Lord, grant me the wisdom to handle the pressures of life with grace. Help me to be patient and understanding, especially in my interactions with my children. Teach me to respond with a soft answer that turns away wrath, mirroring the love and patience You show us every day. Amen.
Closing Verse
“Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools.” – Ecclesiastes 7:9 (KJV)