Tag: SelfControl

May 3, 2025 Devotional Post a Comment

The Trap of Rage

Opening Verse

“A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment: for if thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again.”
— Proverbs 19:19 (KJV)

Introduction

Anger is like a fire. If you don’t put it out quickly, it will burn everything in its path. Proverbs 19:19 isn’t just a proverb—it’s a warning. Rage brings pain. And if someone keeps losing their temper, they will keep needing rescue again and again. But at what cost?

Devotional Story

There was a young man who had trouble controlling his anger. Every time something didn’t go his way, he exploded. He punched holes in walls. He shouted at friends and family. And every time, his mother stepped in to fix things—paying for the damages, apologizing to those he hurt, cleaning up the mess.

One day, he lost his job after yelling at his manager. When he came home, expecting his mother to comfort him again, she simply said, “This is the last time I can save you.”

He was shocked. She continued, “The Bible says if I keep rescuing you, I’ll have to do it again. That means your anger won’t stop just because I clean it up. It’ll stop only when you choose to repent.”

That night, alone and broken, the young man fell to his knees. He cried out to God—not for another rescue, but for a new heart. And the Lord heard him.

What This Means

God does not ignore anger. He warns us that uncontrolled rage leads to suffering. No matter how many times others help you out of trouble, if you don’t change, the cycle repeats. Only God can break that cycle. But you have to let Him.

Think About This

Have you been the angry person who always needs rescue? Or the one always doing the rescuing? In either case, there comes a time when you must let the consequences fall—so real change can happen.

Prayer

Lord, I confess the sin of anger. I’ve seen how it hurts others and myself. Please give me a new spirit, one filled with Your peace. Help me stop depending on others to clean up my mess. I want to change—for real. I want to walk in Your Spirit, not in rage. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Closing Verse

“He that is slow to wrath is of great understanding: but he that is hasty of spirit exalteth folly.”
— Proverbs 14:29 (KJV)

April 1, 2025 Devotional Post a Comment

Recognizing Patterns of Reactivity

Opening Verse

“He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls.”
— Proverbs 25:28 (KJV)

Introduction

Sometimes we react before we think. We say things we don’t mean. We snap, get offended, or pull back in silence. These patterns don’t just happen once—they become habits if we’re not careful. But Scripture calls us to something better: self-awareness that leads to Spirit-control.

Devotional Story

A man was driving home after a long day at work. Traffic was heavy, and someone cut him off. Instantly, he laid on the horn and shouted in frustration. His children, quiet in the backseat, looked on. He didn’t realize how often this happened—until one evening, his young daughter mimicked his reaction during a game.

That was the wake-up call.

He didn’t need a sermon. He saw it—clear as day—how his pattern of reactivity was not just hurting his witness, but shaping his children. He went to his room, dropped to his knees, and repented. He asked the Lord, not just for forgiveness, but for a new spirit. A spirit that reflects Christ, not the flesh.

What This Means

If we don’t slow down and reflect, we’ll keep living in cycles of reaction. God wants us to respond in wisdom, not react in emotion. Self-awareness is not self-help—it’s a grace of God that helps us examine ourselves in the light of the Holy Spirit.

When we stay in God’s Word and prayer, He shows us the truth about ourselves—not to shame us, but to change us.

Think About This

  • Do you notice when you’re quick to anger, fear, or control?

  • Are your reactions bearing the fruit of the Spirit—or the works of the flesh?

  • Have you ever paused to ask God, “Why am I like this?” He will show you—if you ask Him with a humble heart.

Prayer

Lord, I need You to rule over my spirit. I confess that I’ve allowed old patterns to lead me instead of Your Spirit. Help me see myself clearly and surrender my reactions to You. Teach me how to pause, reflect, and walk in the peace of Christ. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Closing Verse

“Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.”
— Psalm 51:10 (KJV)