When You Talk to Yourself

Opening Verse

“Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer.” – Psalm 19:14 (KJV)

Introduction

Talking to ourselves is something we all do, often without even realizing it. Whether it’s an inner dialogue of encouragement or criticism, these thoughts can shape our attitudes and actions. God’s Word gives us guidance on aligning even our self-talk with His truth.

Devotional Story

Anna was a hardworking mother of three, often overwhelmed by the chaos of life. As she packed lunches one morning, she whispered to herself, “I’m not good enough. I can’t do this.” Her words were unnoticed by others but weighed heavily on her spirit.

Later that day, her youngest child handed her a drawing of their family, with her smiling in the center. “You’re the best mommy in the world!” her daughter exclaimed.

Tears filled Anna’s eyes as she realized how often her inner words contradicted the truth of God’s promises. That evening, she opened her Bible and was drawn to Philippians 4:8:

“Whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest… think on these things.”

Anna decided from that day to let God’s Word shape her self-talk.

What This Means

Self-talk matters. Our words, even those spoken internally, can bring life or destruction to our spirit. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us,

“Death and life are in the power of the tongue.”

When our internal dialogue aligns with God’s truth, it becomes a powerful tool for faith and encouragement.

Instead of speaking defeat or fear, we can declare His promises over our lives:

“I am fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14)

or

“I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me” (Philippians 4:13).

Think About This

  • What are the phrases you often repeat to yourself during challenging moments?
  • How can you replace negative self-talk with the truth of God’s Word?

Prayer

Heavenly Father, help me to guard the words I speak to myself. Let my thoughts be shaped by Your truth and bring glory to Your name. When I feel weak or overwhelmed, remind me of Your promises. Guide my heart and mind so that my self-talk reflects Your love and grace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Closing Verse

“For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.” – Proverbs 23:7 (KJV)

 

 

The Power of Words

Opening Verse

“Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.”  – Proverbs 18:21 (KJV)

 

Introduction

Words hold immense power. They can either build us up or tear us down. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that our words can bring life or death. This truth is essential in how we speak about ourselves and others.

Devotional Story

Imagine a young mother named Grace. She often found herself overwhelmed with the responsibilities of raising her children. In moments of frustration, she would say to herself, “I’m a terrible mother,” or “I can’t do anything right.” These words, though said in a moment of weakness, began to shape her reality. She felt more inadequate with each passing day.

One day, Grace’s friend, Anna, noticed her distress and offered some gentle advice. “Grace, your words are powerful. Every time you speak negatively about yourself, you are planting seeds of doubt and insecurity. But if you start speaking life and truth, you can transform your mind and heart.”

Grace took Anna’s advice to heart. She began to change her self-talk. Instead of saying, “I’m a terrible mother,” she would say, “I am doing my best, and I am learning every day.” Instead of “I can’t do anything right,” she declared, “I am capable and strong.” Over time, Grace noticed a significant change in her attitude and outlook on life. She felt more confident and at peace, not because her circumstances changed, but because her words did.

What This Means

Our words are like seeds. What we plant will grow. If we plant negative words, we will reap a harvest of doubt, fear, and insecurity. But if we plant words of truth, hope, and encouragement, we will see a harvest of confidence, peace, and joy.

When we speak words of self-hate, it often stems from a mind poisoned by negative thoughts and lies. By affirming these corrupted thoughts, we further entrench ourselves in a cycle of negativity and despair. God created us in His image and has a unique purpose for each of us. He gives us insights and inspiration, but we must be willing to fight the battle of the mind and walk the path He has laid out for us. We are wonderfully made, and God desires to do great things in our lives. However, we must stop cursing ourselves with negative words and start speaking life.

Think About This

– What kind of words are you planting in your life?
– How can you start speaking more positively about yourself and others?
– Remember, you are made in the image of God, and He has a wonderful plan for you.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for the reminder that our words have power. Help us to speak life and truth into our lives and the lives of others. Forgive us for the times we have spoken negatively about ourselves. Give us the strength to change our words and, in turn, change our lives. Thank You for creating us in Your image and for the wonderful plans You have for us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Closing Verse

“I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.” Psalm 139:14 (KJV)