Opening Verse
“Whoso curseth his father or his mother, his lamp shall be put out in obscure darkness.” – Proverbs 20:20 (KJV)
Introduction
Honoring our parents is not just a social expectation; it is a divine command. Yet, in today’s world, rebellion against authority, including parents, is often encouraged. Many believe they have the right to dishonor or disrespect their parents because of disagreements or past wounds. However, God’s Word warns that dishonoring parents leads to severe consequences, both spiritually and physically.
Devotional Story
There was a young man who grew up feeling bitter towards his parents. He often blamed them for his struggles and hardships. As he became older, his resentment turned into open defiance—he spoke harshly to them, ignored their counsel, and even ridiculed their faith.
One day, in a fit of rage, he yelled at his mother, calling her names and cursing her. That night, as he lay in bed, he felt an unshakable darkness settle over him. He lost his peace, and his once bright future began to crumble. Opportunities slipped away, friendships faded, and he found himself lost in deep loneliness.
Desperate, he sought help from a wise pastor, who pointed him to Proverbs 20:20. The young man was struck with conviction. He fell to his knees and repented before God. He reached out to his parents, asking for forgiveness, and slowly, the darkness in his life began to lift. Joy returned, doors opened, and the favor of God shined upon him once more.
What This Means
Cursing or dishonoring our parents leads to spiritual darkness. It affects not only our relationship with them but also our relationship with God. Parents, whether perfect or flawed, are placed in our lives by God’s design. When we honor them, we honor Him. Dishonor brings destruction, but repentance and restoration bring blessings.
Think About This
- Have you spoken or acted in ways that dishonor your parents?
- Do you hold resentment against them that needs to be released?
- How can you show honor and gratitude to them today?
Prayer
Heavenly Father, I thank You for my parents, even in their imperfections. Forgive me for any words or actions that have dishonored them. Soften my heart to show them love and respect as You command. Help me to walk in the light of Your blessings by honoring those You have placed in authority over me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Closing Verse
“Honour thy father and thy mother; that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.” – Exodus 20:12 (KJV)