Tag: jealousy

September 16, 2024 Devotional Post a Comment

Be Yourself, Not a Copy

Opening Verse

“For the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7, KJV)

Introduction

It’s easy to feel jealous of others sometimes. We see someone who seems to have it all—popularity, success, and admiration—and we think that if we act like them or look like them, we can have the same life. But what we often forget is that it’s not the outward appearance that truly draws people in. It’s something deeper.

Devotional Story

There was once a young man who admired his friend. This friend seemed to have everything—a great job, many friends, and everyone loved being around him. The young man thought to himself, “If only I could dress like him, speak like him, and do the things he does, then I will be liked too.”

So he started copying everything. He bought the same clothes, adopted the same mannerisms, and even tried to say the same things. But to his surprise, people didn’t react the same way. Instead of drawing people closer, they seemed distant and unsure around him.

After weeks of frustration, he finally asked his friend, “Why isn’t this working for me? I’ve done everything you do, but I still feel invisible.”

His friend smiled kindly and said, “It’s not the clothes or the way I talk that make people want to be around me. It’s the love in my heart for them. I genuinely care about people, and that’s what they respond to.”

What This Means

We often get caught up in appearances, thinking that if we can mimic someone’s outside, we will gain what they have. But God reminds us in His Word that He doesn’t look at the outside—He looks at the heart. What truly attracts others is a heart filled with love, kindness, and sincerity. If we focus on becoming the person God created us to be, instead of copying others, we will find that the right people are drawn to us naturally.

Think About This

  • Have you ever tried to copy someone else, thinking it would make you more popular or successful?
  • What qualities of your heart can you focus on that reflect the love of Christ?
  • How can you be more genuine with those around you?

Prayer

Dear Lord, help me to remember that You care more about my heart than my outward appearance. Teach me to love others from a sincere heart, and to be the person You created me to be, not a copy of someone else. Fill me with Your love and kindness so that I may draw people closer to You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Closing Verse

“A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.” (John 13:34, KJV)

October 15, 2023 Devotional Post a Comment

The Art of Being Humble and Recognizing Talent

“Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”
– Psalms 139:23-24 (KJV)

Introduction

We all know the warm sense of happiness that arises when our loved ones achieve something great. This joy is especially pronounced when it comes to our children. Yet what transpires when we are met with the reality that their talents might not just equal but even outstrip our own? Here we have a tale involving a parent who experiences complex emotions upon discovering the awe-inspiring talents of a young animator—a mirror to what their child could become.

Devotional Story

One fine day, a parent stumbles upon an animation that leaves them speechless. Crafted by a young animator, the piece showcases skills and imagination far exceeding anything the parent had ever created. Rather than feeling an overwhelming sense of pride or happiness for the prodigious animator, they find themselves drowning in jealousy, a sentiment they rarely entertain.

This eye-opening moment acts like a magnifying glass, revealing aspects of themselves they’d rather not see. It opens the floodgates to fears and insecurities about their own achievements, and even more painfully, about the accomplishments of their loved ones.

“Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”
– Psalms 139:23-24 (KJV)

After a period of intense reflection and soul-searching, the parent recognizes the fallacy behind their emotional reaction. They come to understand that their jealousy has less to do with the young animator’s brilliance and more with their own lurking insecurities. This epiphany becomes a stepping stone toward greater maturity; they decide to be more supportive and to celebrate not just others’ talents, but also to acknowledge and foster their own untapped potentials.

Conclusion

Jealousy and insecurity are far from admirable, yet they serve as crucial indicators that signal the need for introspection. These emotional signposts, once understood, can guide us toward becoming better advocates for the talent that surrounds us. They can also be catalysts for the discovery of our own latent gifts.

Faith Notes

It’s paramount to remember that in the grand design, God has endowed each one of us with unique gifts and talents.

“For as we have many members in one body, and all members have not the same office: So we, being many, are one body in Christ, and every one members one of another.”
– Romans 12:4-5 (KJV)

These gifts are not pitted against each other in a celestial contest. Rather, they are meant to be harmonious, complementing each other in the beautiful tapestry of life. When we align ourselves with this divine wisdom, we learn to celebrate the successes of others without reservation, viewing them not as threats, but as sources of inspiration for our own spiritual and personal growth.

May we continually strive to elevate one another, recognizing and cherishing the brilliance in those around us. In doing so, let us light our paths with the wisdom and love born of sincere humility and unconditional support.

“A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.”
– John 13:34 (KJV)