The Untamable Tongue

Opening Verse

“But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.”
— James 3:8 (KJV)

Introduction

The tongue, though small, wields immense power. It can uplift or destroy, bless or curse, and lead others to Christ or away from Him. Yet, the Bible reminds us that no human can completely tame it. What, then, can we do to ensure our words reflect God’s heart?

Devotional Story

A woman once attended a small Bible study. She was known for her sharp wit and quick remarks. One evening, after a particularly heated discussion, she realized her words had deeply hurt another member. Overwhelmed with guilt, she confessed to the group, saying, “I try to watch my words, but they escape like fire from my lips.”

Her pastor gently replied, “That’s why we need the Holy Spirit. Only God can help us control what we cannot.”

She began praying each day for God to guide her tongue. Though the struggle continued, her words began to change—less biting and more gracious. Her efforts reminded the group of Proverbs 15:1: “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.”

What This Means

Our words have eternal consequences. Though taming the tongue is impossible for man, nothing is impossible for God. He calls us to surrender this unruly member to Him daily. Through prayer and Scripture, we can learn to speak words of life and truth, pointing others to Christ.

Think About This

  • Have your words ever caused harm when you intended to help?
  • How often do you ask God to guide your speech?
  • What changes can you make today to ensure your words are a reflection of God’s love?

Prayer

Lord, I surrender my tongue to You. Let my words bring healing, encouragement, and truth. Teach me to speak with wisdom and love, and forgive me for the times my words have hurt others. Fill me with Your Spirit, so my tongue may glorify You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Closing Verse

“Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer.”
— Psalm 19:14 (KJV)