True Friendship vs. Worldly Favor

Opening Verse

“The poor is hated even of his own neighbour: but the rich hath many friends.” – Proverbs 14:20 (KJV)

Introduction

This verse reveals a harsh reality of the world—people often judge others based on their wealth or status. The poor are neglected, while the rich attract many “friends.” But are these true friendships? As believers, we are called to look beyond status and love others as God loves us.

Devotional Story

David had been wealthy most of his life. His house was always filled with people—friends, business partners, and neighbors who enjoyed his generosity. But when a financial crisis struck, everything changed.

One by one, his so-called friends disappeared. Invitations stopped coming. Phone calls went unanswered. The man who once had a crowd around him now sat alone.

One day, an old friend, John, knocked on his door. “I heard what happened,” John said. “I don’t care about your money. I care about you.”

Tears filled David’s eyes. He finally understood what true friendship looked like—not one built on wealth or advantage, but on love and loyalty.

What This Means

Proverbs 14:20 warns us about the fickleness of worldly relationships. Many people will befriend the rich for their own gain, but their loyalty fades when the benefits stop. True friendship isn’t based on wealth but on love, faithfulness, and godly character.

Jesus Himself sought out the poor, the outcasts, and those the world rejected. If we want to follow Him, we must do the same—valuing people for who they are, not for what they have.

Think About This

  • Do you treat people differently based on their wealth or status?
  • Are your friendships based on true love and loyalty, or convenience?
  • How can you be a friend to someone who feels forgotten?

Prayer

Lord, help me to love people as You do—not for what they have, but for who they are. Keep me from judging others based on their status. Let me be a true friend, showing kindness and faithfulness in all my relationships. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Closing Verse

“A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” – Proverbs 17:17 (KJV)