Opening Verse
“Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.”
—Exodus 20:12 (KJV)
Introduction
God didn’t give this command with conditions. He didn’t say “honor them if they’re perfect” or “if they treat you fairly.” He said honor them — period. And when it’s hard, that’s when it becomes a true offering to God.
Devotional Story
A young man found himself constantly disrespected by his father. Harsh words, criticism, and favoritism marked their relationship. The father rarely encouraged him, and often belittled his efforts.
One day, after another argument, the young man considered cutting off all communication. But in his quiet time, the Word of God rang in his heart: “Honour thy father…” He wept. Not because his father had earned that honor, but because God was worthy of obedience.
So he chose a different path. He spoke respectfully even when it hurt. He prayed for his father. He forgave offenses, again and again. Years later, when the father fell ill and was bedridden, it was the same son who served him daily.
One evening, the father whispered with tears, “I didn’t treat you right… but you treated me like I was worth something. Why?” The son replied, “Because God said to honor you. And God never changes.”
What This Means
Honoring your parents doesn’t mean approving their sin or agreeing with everything they do. It means choosing God’s way over your feelings. It means treating them with dignity, not because they’ve earned it — but because God has commanded it. When you honor them despite the pain, you testify that your life is ruled by heaven, not by bitterness.
Think About This
Who have you been withholding honor from? Is your obedience to God waiting on someone else’s apology?
Prayer
Lord, Your Word tells me to honor my father and mother. Help me obey, even when it’s painful. Cleanse my heart from bitterness. Teach me to serve, speak, and respond in a way that pleases You. I trust that You see my obedience, and I leave the rest in Your hands. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Closing Verse
“If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.”
—Romans 12:18 (KJV)