The Trap of Rage

Opening Verse

“A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment: for if thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again.”
— Proverbs 19:19 (KJV)

Introduction

Anger is like a fire. If you don’t put it out quickly, it will burn everything in its path. Proverbs 19:19 isn’t just a proverb—it’s a warning. Rage brings pain. And if someone keeps losing their temper, they will keep needing rescue again and again. But at what cost?

Devotional Story

There was a young man who had trouble controlling his anger. Every time something didn’t go his way, he exploded. He punched holes in walls. He shouted at friends and family. And every time, his mother stepped in to fix things—paying for the damages, apologizing to those he hurt, cleaning up the mess.

One day, he lost his job after yelling at his manager. When he came home, expecting his mother to comfort him again, she simply said, “This is the last time I can save you.”

He was shocked. She continued, “The Bible says if I keep rescuing you, I’ll have to do it again. That means your anger won’t stop just because I clean it up. It’ll stop only when you choose to repent.”

That night, alone and broken, the young man fell to his knees. He cried out to God—not for another rescue, but for a new heart. And the Lord heard him.

What This Means

God does not ignore anger. He warns us that uncontrolled rage leads to suffering. No matter how many times others help you out of trouble, if you don’t change, the cycle repeats. Only God can break that cycle. But you have to let Him.

Think About This

Have you been the angry person who always needs rescue? Or the one always doing the rescuing? In either case, there comes a time when you must let the consequences fall—so real change can happen.

Prayer

Lord, I confess the sin of anger. I’ve seen how it hurts others and myself. Please give me a new spirit, one filled with Your peace. Help me stop depending on others to clean up my mess. I want to change—for real. I want to walk in Your Spirit, not in rage. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Closing Verse

“He that is slow to wrath is of great understanding: but he that is hasty of spirit exalteth folly.”
— Proverbs 14:29 (KJV)